Trusting the Process: A Letter from a Reader

I’ve been working on Lavender Hours for weeks now, pouring my heart into every post, every word, every thought. I’ve been creating content, curating posts for Instagram, and dreaming of how this space could offer comfort, peace, and a little warmth to those who might need it. Yet, after days of publishing and sharing, I couldn’t help but feel a bit disappointed. The views were low, the traffic nonexistent, and even my new IG page wasn’t gathering the kind of following I had hoped for.

And with that came doubt. The kind of doubt that creeps into your mind and makes you question everything. “Is anyone even reading these words? Is anyone seeing the message I’m trying to share?” I’m sure we’ve all been there — when self-doubt begins to cloud our thoughts, and it feels like we’re doing all the work, but nothing’s happening.

But then, I paused. I took a deep breath, and I reminded myself of my purpose. I didn’t start Lavender Hours with the intention of going viral or gaining thousands of followers. I started this space to hold space. To create a place where people can come and feel seen, heard, and supported — no matter how big or small the community might be.

I spoke to myself softly, repeating an affirmation: “I trust that those meant for this space will find their way here.” And today, that trust was rewarded in the most beautiful way.

I received my first letter from a reader.

I can’t even begin to explain how moved I felt. Here was someone who had found their way to Lavender Hours, someone who resonated with the words I’ve been sharing. Someone who needed the space I created. And just like that, I knew the affirmation was true. The right people will always find their way to you, when you least expect it.

So here’s what I’ve learned in this small moment: trust the process. Trust that the work you do with love and intention will have its impact — even if it doesn’t happen right away. If it's meant to be, it will be. You don’t need to rush or force anything. Just continue to pour your heart into what you do, and it will find its way.

Thank you, to that reader who took the time to share their thoughts with me. You’ve reminded me why I’m here — not for the numbers or the views, but to connect with those who need this space. And to everyone else who’s been here with me, whether silently or through kind words — thank you for trusting Lavender Hours to hold space for you.

I’m here because of you.

With warmth,

Rem💜✨

Reflection Prompt:

What’s one thing in your life that you’ve been doubting recently? Take a deep breath and write down why you trust that it will unfold in its own time. What does it feel like to release the pressure of having everything “work” right away?